Notes from Steve

I was telling a friend that my “zones of anxiety” (playing the state fair and the party in my backyard, which both happened to take place on the same day - August 16th) are done, and for the time being - I’m free.  I was going through my stuff that causes me stress (obligations and stuff that makes me think), and pretty much I’ve either taken care of them, or I did them.  Hmmm … hmmmm …

Usually, in times like this, I adopt some sort of drama to fill the lack of existing real drama in my life, but I’m going to really try this time to relax and not take on other people’s drama to fill my “need.”  (This is not easy for me.) 

My big, hairy, audacious goal for myself right now is to avoid talking about politics.  No one needs to hear my perspective.*  I’m not a yard sign guy, either.  I used to ask my dad when I was a kid who he voted for … “None of your business.”  Ok.  I think I’m going to be like my dad and just take the high, quiet road.  Life is simpler without unnecessary anxiety and drama.

I’m going to do the Iowa nice thing for a while.  I’m going to let people pass me on the interstate without judgment or rage (the bike trails will be harder for me). I’m going to walk away from negative speak and other people’s drama.  AND I’m going to attempt to apply grace whenever possible.**

*I see on Facebook, groups that beg people to write notecards to people begging them to vote for their candidate.  I can tell you with certainty - no postcard from some random dude asking me to do something has had any major impact in changing how I feel about something.
**This will not be easy.