A Message from the CEO - Oct 2024
I'm turning 60 in a matter of days. A friend pointed out that this potentially will be my best decade yet. Potentially, a lot of things can happen - sometimes good and sometimes bad. I told my friend that my perspective as of late was to “embrace the suck”. She said, “That sounds negative, Steve.” I said, “Not so much. Life isn’t perfect, and regardless of how optimistic and giddy I am, there are going to be times in my life that aren’t great … they will suck.” “How I approach them is the key.”
If I embrace a bad situation with grace and patience - I can change how I see it. Lemons turning into lemonade if you will. I was riding up in Minneapolis a couple of years ago and it rained like crazy. I remember hanging out in a tunnel with a couple of friends while it poured. We ended up at the definition of a dive bar … filled with the coolest people, and we had a great time. I was talking about my ride to an older gentleman when I was taking a break on a bench later on, saying “We got rained on something awful.” “Embrace the suck” - he said - “did you have fun?” he asked. I told him about the cool little dive bar we found and the people who were there, and said “Yeah, it was memorable and now that I look back, it was really awesome.”
Perspective.
This next decade will be filled with all sorts of stuff - it’s called life. Things will happen that will cause frustration and heartache. But knowing my friends and family, I will be supported and loved throughout; regardless. Another version of me could see stuff happening and go full-on victim mode and scream and holler about all the injustices of aging. Or I could embrace the process and enjoy the heck out of the next 10 years.
I choose embrace.