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How to Make Smart Resolutions

January 23, 2018

We’re over halfway through January.  According to research, most resolutions don’t make it much past the first month of the year.  A lot of these resolutions fail because they’re not the right resolutions, and may be wrong for one of three main reasons:

•    It’s a resolution created based on what someone else (or society) is telling you to change. 
•    It’s too vague.
•    You don’t have a realistic plan for achieving your resolution.

Your goals should be smart — and SMART. That’s an acronym coined in the journal Management Review in 1981 for management.  It can also work in setting your resolutions, too.

Specific:  Your resolution should be absolutely clear. Making a concrete goal is really important rather than just vaguely saying ‘I want to lose weight.’  You want to have a goal: How much weight do you want to lose and at what time interval?” “Five pounds in the next two months” — that’s going to be more effective.

Measurable:  This may seem obvious if your goal is a fitness or weight loss related one, but it’s also important if you’re trying to cut back on something, too.  For example, if you want to stop biting your nails, take pictures of your nails over time so you can track your progress in how those nails grow back out. Logging progress into a journal or making notes on your phone or in an app designed to help you track behaviors can reinforce the progress.

Achievable:  Trying to take too big a step too fast can leave you frustrated, or affect other areas of your life to the point that your resolution takes over your life.  So, for example, resolving to save enough money to retire in five years when you’re 30 years old is probably not realistic, but saving an extra $100 a month may be.  And if that’s easy, you can slide that number up to an extra $200, etc. 

Relevant:  Is this a goal that really matters to you, and are you making it for the right reasons?  If you do it out of the sense of self-hate or remorse or a strong passion in that moment, it doesn’t usually last long.  But if you build up a process where you’re thinking harder about what’s good for you, you’re changing the structure of your life, you’re bringing people into your life who will reinforce that resolution, then you have a fighting chance.

Time-bound:  The timeline toward reaching your goal should be realistic, too. That means giving yourself enough time to do it with lots of smaller intermediate goals set up along the way.  Focus on small wins so you can make gradual progress.  If you’re building a habit, you’re planning for the next decade, not the next couple of months.


Resource: www.nytimes.com
 

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